I take care of her and I have been for the last 5 1/2 years. She has a lot of family and not one person has come to check on her. One time back in February they called APS and nothing came of that. I do everything for her. I grocery shop and clean the house. She hasn’t done dishes in like six years. I do all her laundry, change her bedding, etc. When she first asked me to stay with her she offered to write me a big fat check and I said no, I don’t care about her money. Then a couple years ago she said she wanted to give me a couple hundred dollars a day to be her PCA. Still, I said no to that but she gives me her card to go and take care of stuff. I guess I should’ve been a little smarter and wrote everything down but I didn’t. So her bank froze all her accounts and told her I was stealing from her. She said no, she’s not and they said I’m not unlocking your account until you come to your senses. So, now I don’t know what to do for food, hygiene, laundry soap or whatever she wants. It’s her money! I made a promise to her and I don’t have any money to help, so I don’t know what to do at this point. I went to the Food Shelf to get her some food, hygiene products and soap as soon as she needed it. I mean, tell me what I’m doing wrong here because they’re putting my name in the mud and it just hurts. They have no idea what’s going on and I’ve been doing it for the last 5 1/2 years. Why is the bank just now saying something? I mean it’s just really ridiculous because I locked the card that’s how that started. I locked her card up by accident. When we went to the bank and she told them what I did, we didn’t know the people we were dealing with were not the people we normally deal with. They apparently don’t work there anymore. I guess all of a sudden it is what’s going on so I don’t know what to do. I don’t know how to help her. I wanna help both of us, you know.
You did this for no pay? If she can offer u $200 a day, she can hire someone to do what you did.
I don't know if this is the face of Social Media in general, but I am getting very close to bowing out.
My answers have become more and more abrupt, and I honestly thing that's in response to questions that are more and more "odd" from people who do not care to fill in their own profiles, and who seldom return to answer us, who often do not take time for punctuation and capitalization, leaving us to need an interpreter to attempt plowing through. I read the expression "Has anyone experienced this before" so often I feel trapped in an A.I. algorithm.
Perhaps I just need another vacation.