As some may know, my LO, went into MC about 4 years ago due to significant dementia. She has progressed and is now in end stage dementia. Yesterday, I met with her doctor who examined her and signed order for Hospice. I also met with the Hospice representative to go over the program, get information, etc. Does anyone know what I may expect today with the nurse?
She thought my LO seemed pretty stable, but, I just don't think she looks good. I have enough incidences in the past that I have learned to trust my instincts, feelings, premonitions, etc., that I tend to rely on them. I am just quite uneasy about her present state. Anyway, I have the peace of mind that my LO is going to be kept comfortable, pain properly addressed and lots of eyes on her to monitor her condition. For these things I am grateful.
Also, do you know if the same person comes to see her, like an assigned person or nurse each week?
Have you ever seen them gauge pain in a nonverbal person who has dementia?
And, she's actually my cousin, not my mom, though, most people think that. She's 11 years older than me. She has few family members left alive, not infirmed or who are in her life anymore. Thank goodness she appointed me as POA long before her illness.