Plus she has to take insulin twice a day. she has low blood sugar spikes during the night, if it wasn't for me waking up about every hour on the hour my wife have passed away a long time ago. I am worry about what would happen to her when i am gone. She can't live by herself and she has no one who would live with her 24 hours a day 7 days a week. She has to be checked on during the night. Jan she had 7 low blood sugar spikes and in Feb 2 nights. I don't know what to do.
Check with an Elder Law attorney to see what type of paperwork you would need for this to happen, and the attorney could be your wife's Power of Attorney and see to her future needs.