Dad and I have been living at home together. He's had a head injury and can't walk. If he stands up alone, he'll fall. Tonight I peeked into his room and happened to see him trying to stand up. He told me he was going to go upstairs and get a good book to read. There's no way he can actually do that. Right now I'm spending the night awake on the floor in his bedroom. I can't do this forever. If he's going to keep thinking he can stand, we won't be able to keep living here together. What do I do? Where can he live where he will be safe?
He's been forgetful before, but this is the 1st time he's sounded truly demented. His health is okay otherwise, but he has no balance and can't walk. I'm really scared.
Thank you for your thoughts.
How long has he been unable to walk? Did the head injury cause mental loss and physical loss?
If his problem is just balance and not leg injury, I can understand why he would want to try to walk. Can he walk with your help? Does he fall everytime he tries to stand? What kind of physical rehab did he get after his head injury? Can he continue or what is his prognosis for recovery?
Obviously, you can not possibly keep yourself awake all night just to watch him, but I think we need more information as to the extent of his injuries and abilities before we can advise you on this problem. It is best to keep him as mobile as possible without compromising safety.
To the left of the screen, there are some links like "Assisted Living Facilities." Pose the same questions you're asking here. I'm sure experts in this kind of things will give you the answers you seek. Good luck.
-- ED