Manipulation of parents assets on a mind boggling scale. Family mediation unsuccessful…another mediation plus lawyer (so much cost!)ended up no result. 3 of 5 used parents $ to do repairs on family biz..then passed onto themselves, plus the family trust…gave other two nominal$…. Had dad deemed competent….so he gave them poa anyway, a year later, parents in a nursing home with not one thing of their own(mum dementia) dad depressed now they say everything to be sold as parents can’t afford where they are( business they gave themselves worth 3.2 mil on a 6 mil property)manipulated and lied to present myself and my sis as problematic,thus we have no voice at all and they are in league with parents lawyers.i don’t care about the $, I just want to get some of my mum n dads things around them…one of the 3 have everything from parents home after it sold for 3.2 mil…locked up in storage. When I ask my dad he indicates he’s bullied and wants no trouble, then lies when they ask why he wants his stuff, and says I pressure him to get his things, he doesn’t want them, no surprise, I can’t stand up to them I’m not surprised he can’t what to do?
As for anonymously asking for an audit, I shouldn't think so. Their financial situation, the business and their trust are private. It's none of your business.
Sorry, but you aren't on a winning streak here, and your parents deserve peace and calm at the end of their lives. Take them a bag of cookies next time you visit, and don't talk about sensitive subjects again. Tell dad you appreciate and love him, and then leave. Refuse to argue with your uncooperative siblings, and have a happier new year.
To me it indicates that there is NO ANSWER.
I would be stepping away from this mess ASAP myself. Would have done so long ago.
As to advice for you?
You say you have no voice at all. Good. That saves having to talk about it.
Go to see Mum and Dad. Take flowers. Send nice notes. Do NOT talk about this.
Stay out of the way of those who are appointed as legal POA and guardians.
Let them handle things as they see fit.
OR, you know, just keep smashing your head against what you have be shown is a brick wall. That's option B, which seems to me to have proven less than efficacious.