My boyfriend is bedridden and I am his caregiver. We have fought on and off for the duration of his disability. We did so again this morning now he wants to leave and won't let me help him at all. He has not eaten all day and won't take his pills. He says he is going to do that till he gets sick enough they will take him to the hospital and then he will tell them he does not want to go back home. I really don't know what to do. Usually he calms down after a bit but he has not as of yet.
My mother has decided to give up. So she is. She'll eat just enough to keep from starving. She's still sort of taking her meds. She's diabetic and if she so decides, she has our blessing to quit taking those and accept Hospice Care and pass away.
I do hope you can get your bf to a dr., to just assess him. He's being a bit selfish, as this does affect you, but in the end, he has a right to do what he wants.
Why does he want to go to the hospital? He doesn't want to be home? Has the fighting you alluded to added to this?
Some more information would be helpful.