Mom can barely walk. Sometimes she waits too long to go pee and will leak. I've put the potty next to her bed, but she won't use it. She won't shower when asked because she want's to do it when she wants to (but she'll forget or thinks she already did it). She sleeps all day. She barely eats because she is not hungry or food doesn't digest. She is diabetic and without eating, it's difficult to manage her sugar. I am currently not working but will eventually have to. Mom doesn't qualify for Medi-Cal due to income being a little over the limit so I can't put her in a nursing home. Anyone is similar situation? If so, what did you do?