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What you can do about this first of all is ask the carer (what sort of carer? With what sort of authority to make decisions for your sister?) to explain the reasons against your taking your sister out (out of where? To where?) and listen attentively. You may find that on reflection you agree that taking your sister out, at least for the time being, is not a good idea.
Who is caring for your sister? Does the person caring for your sister have POA? Is your sister competent to make her own decisions at all? What reasons does the carer give you for not wishing to have you take the sister "out". Is Covid-19 a concern here, and is your sister vaccinated now? We need more information. How old are you? How old her your Sister? What is your Sister's condition?
Who is the Carer? Where is your sister in her home or a facility? Is there a POA involved. Can sister make her own decisions? Really need more info to answer this question.
You give no info so it is VERY difficult to address your question. One of the things that I had to realize was at some point taking my Husband out for a ride, something that he loved doing was no longer safe. That realization came to me the day I had to lay on the ground, the caregiver helped him turn, while I pivoted his feet so he could sit in the car. I think that was the last day I took him out. So the question for you is Why will the caregiver not let you take her out? Is it a matter of safety? Is it a matter of agitation? If someone becomes so agitated when taken out of their environment that it takes a day to reorient them. Is taking her out more for you or for your sister? Who is benefiting from the outing?
More info please. Is sis ill? Does she have dementia? Is she mobile? Based on sister's condition there may be very justifiable reasons for sis to stay put. Civic is just one.
It depends on your sister's needs and level of assistance required. Why not take out your sister and her carer to cover all bases? Alternatively, you might offer to sign a waiver that states you are taking full responsibility for your sister whilst in your care. Should anything happen, you may be liable. Another consideration is your sister's rights to do as she pleases. Does she want to be taken out? Can she express her own wishes? Probably need a little more background information here.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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Can you add details to your posting please?
What you can do about this first of all is ask the carer (what sort of carer? With what sort of authority to make decisions for your sister?) to explain the reasons against your taking your sister out (out of where? To where?) and listen attentively. You may find that on reflection you agree that taking your sister out, at least for the time being, is not a good idea.
Will the carer let you in to see her?
We need more information. How old are you? How old her your Sister? What is your Sister's condition?
One of the things that I had to realize was at some point taking my Husband out for a ride, something that he loved doing was no longer safe. That realization came to me the day I had to lay on the ground, the caregiver helped him turn, while I pivoted his feet so he could sit in the car. I think that was the last day I took him out.
So the question for you is
Why will the caregiver not let you take her out?
Is it a matter of safety?
Is it a matter of agitation? If someone becomes so agitated when taken out of their environment that it takes a day to reorient them.
Is taking her out more for you or for your sister? Who is benefiting from the outing?
Alternatively, you might offer to sign a waiver that states you are taking full responsibility for your sister whilst in your care. Should anything happen, you may be liable.
Another consideration is your sister's rights to do as she pleases. Does she want to be taken out? Can she express her own wishes?
Probably need a little more background information here.