To all of you posting on this forum. I am based in the UK but so much of the advice here has helped me in the six months I have been lurking. I have an 88 year old mother still living independently but is a classic narcissist and her 92 year old spinster sister who went into a Care Home after a fall and who is combative all the while.
I have learned how to manage both of them from all the helpful replies here. Just eant to give you sll a big hug from across the pond. Xx