2 months ago, my husband fell and broke his hip, he was a semi invalid before this, also at that time he developed a bleed in the brainstem which is similar to a stroke, as a result, he has a hard time following directions regarding his therapy. Also, the stroke affected his eyesight and he is nearly blind. He would just as soon sleep all day. I don't know whether to push him or just accept that this is all its going to be
I wouldn't accept that it is all he will ever be. Chances are that he will never be the same, but if he is like my friend, he will get better with time.