Now she has my daughter against me too. They posted about me on Facebook. Even going so far as saying I killed my daughter in the car accident. Wow. I couldn't reply because they both have me blocked. I have cut everyone out of my life because of their narcissism & toxicity. I must REALLY bother them so much that I have a whole post made about me...sick. I already lostmy 4 yr old daughter..now I've lost this one too.
I am so sorry that happened to you and though it's been years, something so traumatic doesn't just go away, so it is wise to be in therapy. I would even say the rest of your life, off and on after awhile, or whenever you feel you need it.
Just like our physical health doesn't stop, neither does our emotional. Seems like something these cruel people with personality disorders don't seem to understand!
I agree with SingSong to stay away from social media; I actually would suggest you can do social media, but choose them carefully. Ones like this site, LinkedIn, Meetup; something more supportive and business like that can help you be more productive. I personally stay away from Facebook, because it was starting to feel more personal and therefore destructive.
I am sure you get the point.
All the best to you. Trust me, I understand. I am dealing with this same level of cruelty and looking to distance myself from it all.
You didn't do anything to make them feel this way, you can't do anything to change it.
I'm sorry for your loss, please seek positive support and stop reading what they write.
I don't use social personal media for that very reason, let's people "say" things with impunity.