Did not no where to put this topic just wondering what people think cause I never seen a topic on here there is some one that needs to be in one right know they asked me to be a part of a intervention this person lives alone can not take care of them selfs has lots of health issues not much family to help them they are in their 70s they have some one that comes in but not dependable and lazy and does very little just wants to be paid I really don’t talk to this person I really don’t want to do this this was my aunts boyfriend before she died a few years a go again I really don’t want to do this cause I really don’t no him any advice helpful thanks
You have no relationship with this person. At best the only relationship you ever had was tangential through your aunt. He is not related to you, you do not currently speak to him, and you do not live anywhere near him.
You have no responsibility whatsoever to him.
There is no need for you to feel even a slight obligation to say anything more than "No". But if you feel you must say more you can always say "No, I'm not sure why you believe I would be someone that should be part of an intervention for him. He probably doesn't even know who I am. I won't be taking part."
End of discussion. You don't need to be afraid of saying no. You have nothing invested here. And you don't have any obligation to invest anything.
Then remove yourself from further discussion on the matter.
From what I understand about conservatorship, you would handle just the finances. Guardianship covers more. It also cost money and mean you going to court. A Judge will make the ruling. Not being a relative, I don't know if a Judge would even allow it.
Just say N0. You don't want the responsibility. Tell them to call Adult Protection Services and have them evaluate this man's circumstances. They can take over his care and have the State assign guardianship. This is not your responsibility. It also sounds fishy to me. Living as far away as you do, its going to be hard to carry out your responsibilities.
It’s not
my aunt and uncle’s business any ways they like to stir things up
This person should be in a nursing home not in a one story ranch with four bedrooms and two showers it’s a pretty big house for a ranch again not my business I don’t care
I doubt that any court would appoint you. Simply tell the person asking you that you are unable to do it, and thanks for caring for his person and wanting to help. People get trained for some time to do this work as a Licensed Fiduciary. I still have my legal boxes full of file folders from acting for my brother. There is nothing to feel bad about in saying no about something you aren't qualified to do; in fact it would be wrong to try.
My best to you.