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My mother is planning to relocate to a home in another state. She will have some in-home care & her family will look in on her, but she’ll be living alone for the most part. My sibling suggested we put cameras in her home for us to keep an eye on her. Anyone here have done this? Thoughts? Suggestions? Thanks!

Cameras are a great idea. Like other readers had advised, tell caregivers there are cameras in the home to respect their privacy. I think it may be difficult to find or keep caregivers with this arrangement. Good Luck for your mom.

Have you also considered a fall detection device for your mom to summon rescue assistance and the service to call you and your backup as well?
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Last night I discovered a camera that offers privacy. Instead of seeing a real person, AI transforms them into stick figures. I think I read where it might have a setting you can switch from stick figure to realistic video. Has anyone else heard of these? Check it out...

https://www.altumview.ca/
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My home is loaded with cameras in every room except the bathrooms. Even though my mom lives with me, the cameras mean I can look in on her when I am out of the house. When I had help, it also let me look in and see if the caretaker was doing her job or just sitting on her phone for 4 hours. The cameras are not hidden and I make sure everyone who comes to the house (hired or not), knows they are there, and they are in clear view of everyone. I also got SimplySafe with monitoring so should she need immediate help, they can go immediately. The cameras and SimplySafe have given me tremendous peace of mind. I told my mom when I was getting them and she was fine with it, too. I also get to look in on my doggies during the day ;)
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JanPeck123 4 hours ago
Excellent for you doing this.
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When safety is concerned, this approach might be a temporary bandaid to confirm that more care is needed or that it will only be a short time before things escalate
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I set up two WYZE (cheap, good quality, live streaming) cameras for my uncle. As others have said make sure any care givers are aware of the cameras. Unfortunately when he did fall it always seemed to be in a blind spot of the cameras, so do your best to test for blind spots. Sort of related, I set up two Alexa devices as well as his phone to respond to requests to call me. Again unfortunately I found that when he did fall his voice was weak enough and devices were not close enough for him to be able to call out for help. The best thing was to keep after him to ALWAYS keep his cell phone either on him on nearby and plugged in (even though it is not good for the battery to stay plugged in). Most of the time when he did fall he was able to reach the charging cord for his phone and pull it toward him.
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JanPeck123 4 hours ago
Might be time for a life alert type of device that can detect falls.
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absolutely. My MIL lives in her own home and when I hire caregiver/driver/assistant, I always tell them she has cameras for safety.

In my own mom’s AL and the MC, I have a camera that has saved mom from going to the hospital when she has slipped down to the floor and didn’t hit her head. I could prove it. It also helped me see her routines and gives me a insight into proactively addressing a pre-uti (that is when her behaviors change and she is more animated or going to the toilet more). Hydration has abated a full on UTI.
I have used blink (don’t care for that one-there is a cost and the video is limited to a short time period. It isn’t live feed.-at least it wasn’t 2 years ago). I used ring-there is a running cost. I know use Eufy with a memory chip. My fav is Eufy Pan and Tilt 220 with the memory chip. I got a shelf and hung it high on the wall over an outlet. Tip: get some plug in night light and you will not have to use the infrared option on the camera -the problem with infrared are the red lights that are visible. I also turned off the LED recording light so it is just a black face and quietly recording sound, movement, human. The recording are long. And it is a live feed that you can have open all the time. I have an old tablet and it is on all the time. The panning and tilting is a nice feature BUT if the camera can “see” the tv, it will watch TV! Lol. I liked the way it followed by mom but I changed the install so the camera wasn’t watching the TV. AND. Another tip: I purchased another camera for mom’s bathroom. She has privacy. I call it my ankle cam because I put it under a bakers rack that was already in her bathroom. I secured it so it could not be dislodged. This was very useful for when mom tripped and was on the floor. I removed the rug. I saw her face and was able to get her help. I also found out that when I thought she was self-toileting when she went in the toilet, she was just walking around and leaving! Very helpful info. Eufy has a free App that I access from my phone and the alerts you set can be individual for each camera. Peace of mind! And good info for the facility that mom is in when she has been on the floor.
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KPWCSC 5 hours ago
I also have EUFY and have been satisfied... except like you said, depending on where we have it, it likes to watch TV and the fan at times. For this reason, I do like the ones that don't follow the motion. We have the pan camera and the regular one. Having them on the floor is a good idea... protecting privacy as well as providing info in case of a fall. A friend said they put a camera under the bed for the same reason, they could see if she fell on the floor.
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Do it.
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Yes, IMHO cameras can be very helpful. Have them in several places.

These inexpensive ones from Amazon -- Tapo by TP-Link Pan/Tilt Security Camera for Baby Monitor, Pet Camera w/Motion Detection, 1080P, 2-Way Audio, Night Vision, Cloud & SD Card Storage -- are easy to set up and work great.

They have voice and motion detection AND two way audio. One can set it up so there is no visual (like for a bedroom for privacy) but if there is a loud sound OR someone cries "HELP" it will record and ping others (like you via email) and you can talk through the camera to ask "are you ok, what happened". The camera can be turned on remotely to actually see what is going on, if there is no response. The camera can be "moved remotely too" so you can see around the area if there is no response.

The other things to add are sensors on the toilet and fridge. Most folks open the fridge or flush the toilet in the am when they wake up, if there is NO action for either after a time; it might be good for you to check on your LO.
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Yes I have used Nooie baby cams, €129 for two, and you download the Nooie app (free) you can see, even in the dark, and communicate or just listen, they're excellent
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If she does not object, I would say definitely as long as her privacy is respected.

As a 24/7 caregiver for my husband I have them. Our caregivers are aware and seem to support it. I think cameras are becoming more common and accepted. Of course, my needs do not all reflect the needs of a family member outside the home. Here are several reasons I like them.

My husband has Parkinsons with dementia and there have been times he has fallen right in front of me. It always happens so fast so when our doctor has questions, I often can't answer... what caused the fall, did he fall frontwards or backwards, how did he land, did he hit his head, etc. I am hoping the recordings will give me a clue because one time it looked to me like he hit his head hard and he said no he didn't hit his head! This should also help relieve concerns a caregiver may have knowing they also are backed with what actually may have happened too.

Recently, we could not find his glasses and were looking everywhere. The caregiver suggested look on the recordings. Never thought of using it for that! While I did not find one of him taking them off, I did see he still had them on when he went into the bedroom for the night so we didn't have to keep looking in the rest of the house... they were found on a shelf in the bathroom closet!

He is often "rearranging" things on the shelves so if I know when something went missing it may help locate it.

I feel they also keep me in check for how I speak to him. They help me when I need to be in a different room, I don't have to leave what I am doing to check on him.

One thing I found is the cameras that don't rotate are just fine when the locations are carefully selected. I have a couple that "follow the motion" and resemble mini robot heads moving and did seem creepy at first, so I can see a caregiver being uncomfortable with them. I have the EUFY plug in style.

You are blessed she has family near where she will be moving.
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It can be helpful to have motion-activated cameras to keep an eye on your loved one and the caregivers. You must let caregivers know that there are cameras. Good ones will have no problem with cameras - and will stay on. I would advise against having a camera in the bathroom and think carefully about placing one in the bedroom.
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woe8myte, if your Mom later needs to have caregivers come into the home, check with her State to see if she needs to let the caregivers know that there are cameras in the house.


Some caregivers, or any employee for that matters, don't like to be on camera. A good friend of mind lost a great caregiver for his wife because he installed cameras. He spent months trying to hire someone new, but his wife wasn't having any part of it (she had advance Alzheimer's and wanted her "friend" back).
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Yes. Motion activated. It helped monitor caregivers and seeing what they were actually doing.
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Yes. I used them with my DH aunt.

It helps to be able to see your mom in her chair watching tv or at her breakfast table or up letting the dog go out or at night turning off lights, getting ready to go to bed.

I started with one for the kitchen table and then added a Few more. A medical alert was also helpful. Sometimes she would accidentally activate it. I would get a call from the company, look on the cameras and she would be visiting with the paramedics.

If I was concerned about her helpers I could look to see that they were there and on time.

When she needed the plumber, I could see them interacting with her and her aide.

I lived two hours away so it was a big help to me. If I saw something of concern, I called someone local to go check on her.

I found it brought peace of mind. They were a great help for several years.
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