Mom has told anyone who would listen that I am trying to take her house. I have lived here and paid the bills for many years. However now she has told her doctor that I threaten her and hit her. On top of taking her things. I would never do any of theae things ever! I take care of her the best I can and still she behaves like she hates me. She has even said that she will evict me and make me live in the park. How do I deal with her?Who do I ask for help? I love my mom and know its not her fault but how do I get her to remember the truth?
Now, the hard part is, how do you emotional handle the lies, the hurt feelings. I use to just tell myself this is not my real mother. As I learned on this forum her brain is broken; therefore, that is what I would tell myself. "She has a broken brain."
I did finally got in contact with my mother's Dr explain what was going on and she was dx with vascular dementia. He put her on meds, and now she is very different. She has calm down.
Contact her Dr asap! This will help more than you realize.
I wish you the best of luck!