My mom has an appointment soon for cognitive testing. I am sure she has some form of dementia and am thinking it may be Alzheimer's. I am not sure whether to tell Mama if she does have it. Or should we let her move forward in her life without her knowing? If we don't tell her, how would we deal with any medication that may be prescribed (she is VERY aware of her medication and what she takes it for...won't be easily fooled). I foresee her slipping into depression if she is told her diagnosis, since we have not even seen the doctor yet and she already talks about how her life won't be worth much any more. Your advice would be appreciated!!!
My mothers neurologist sat her down and told her that her cognitive skills were diminished as the result of a stroke and that there was no way to tell if her condition would progress. But, he said, he could tell her the very best things to do. To stay engaged in activities, not to be socially isolated and to live somewhere where there were always people around if she needed help.
She was able to hold on to the recommendations and not dwell on the diagnosis.