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My grandmother in law is 95 years old and she has dementia. She sleeps most of the time, only waking up because my mother in law makes her get up. She gets her up around noon-1:30, to have a light meal, sometimes just water. She will sit her down in her chair, where she will sleep for another couple of hours. Then wakes her up again around 6-7 for another light meal, if she’ll eat. Then down to sleep again for the night.

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Why not? She is dying, so let her drift off in peace. What is the point of waking her up?
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Just make sure she’s getting enough fluids - that can cause more confusion if dehydrated. Else light meals and sleep is fine.
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At her age and condition, I guess that's about as good as it gets.
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Thank You, very much. I kinda just wanted reassurance that Im doing everything ok. My Mother Inlaw is out of town on business and she wants me to force her to wake up but I have always known it's more for her benefit and not her moms. Thanks Again.
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worriedinCali Oct 2019
Mom in laws are wonderful creatures aren’t they? You’re doing fine. Let grandma-in-law sleep if that’s what she wants to do.
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That's how life goes for late stage dementia sufferers, unfortunately; they sleep 95% of the time. You could wake her up for periods of time, but what would you have her do? There isn't much they're capable of at this stage of the game, so if you were to wake her, it would be more for your sake than hers. If you think you can provide some sort of stimulation or entertainment for her for a period of time when you keep her awake, then by all means, go for it! Otherwise, let her alone, that's my advice.

My 92 y/o mother lives in memory care and lots of the residents are asleep on the chairs that are all around the great room area, every single time I go in to visit. They're woken up to eat and toilet, and then they go right back to sleep on their favorite chair. The care givers do get them up in the mornings, get them dressed and groomed and bring them out to the living room area for the day, but again, they do spend the vast majority of their time sleeping.

It's tough to witness this, I know. All the best to you.
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celest74 Oct 2019
Thank You, very much. I kinda just wanted reassurance that Im doing everything ok. My Mother Inlaw is out of town on business and she wants me to force her to wake up but I have always known it's more for her benefit and not her moms. Thanks Again.
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