I have a matresss protector and waterproof sheets on the bed too, and his quilt is wet also in the mornings. The smell is terrible. How do I deal with this I wonder? He thinks that pull ups won't work to counteract all the washing. Any tips please. Many thanks.
on days he feels stronger, he can get up to the commode to pee. I have the chux under the commode (on the floor also and they are frequently wet). I share your frustration.
I would start by making him responsible for cleaning up the mess, unless he is totally bedridden he can figure out a way to strip the bed and get it into the wash. His mess, his responsibility. That should give him the incentive to at least try the pull ups. He can still use the urinals, but explain they will be there as a back up system - which he obviously needs. The fact that the entire bed is soaked though despite filling 2 urinals makes me wonder if even the pull ups will be enough.... is he on diuretics?